Starting 2018 I'm only working with female clientele.
I care deeply about my connections with men. Especially since I'm working with women and absorbing estrogen all day long. Sometimes I enjoy a cold beer, turn on a sporting event or grab power tools and fix something. I like to hang out with my buddies in friendly competitions while cracking jokes about each other. It balances me out.
I am however, not comfortable massaging men. I struggle to let myself be and connect with men, gay or straight.
90% of straight men won't let another man massage them. The ones that do like heavy pressure and are labor intensive. And I'm constantly on guard making sure the massage isn't too touchy feely. The healing process isn't as natural as it should be.
Professionally speaking, assuming things went according to plan, it was always easier massaging gay men. I never worried if the massage felt unnatural to them like straight men.
Unfortunately, I've had enough of them ask for a happy ending. Since then I've only been going through the motions with male clients not performing my best work. AND its not fair for either of us. The good men out there deserve a therapist comfortable working with masculine energy.
Consumers have every right to select therapists based on criteria valuable to them. And therapists have the legal right on whom to allow into their practice. No one can force me to touch them.
If you accidentally pre-purchased a massage, I politely ask you to get a refund or donate your massage to a special lady in your life.
Thanks for understanding,
Ryan.
I care deeply about my connections with men. Especially since I'm working with women and absorbing estrogen all day long. Sometimes I enjoy a cold beer, turn on a sporting event or grab power tools and fix something. I like to hang out with my buddies in friendly competitions while cracking jokes about each other. It balances me out.
I am however, not comfortable massaging men. I struggle to let myself be and connect with men, gay or straight.
90% of straight men won't let another man massage them. The ones that do like heavy pressure and are labor intensive. And I'm constantly on guard making sure the massage isn't too touchy feely. The healing process isn't as natural as it should be.
Professionally speaking, assuming things went according to plan, it was always easier massaging gay men. I never worried if the massage felt unnatural to them like straight men.
Unfortunately, I've had enough of them ask for a happy ending. Since then I've only been going through the motions with male clients not performing my best work. AND its not fair for either of us. The good men out there deserve a therapist comfortable working with masculine energy.
Consumers have every right to select therapists based on criteria valuable to them. And therapists have the legal right on whom to allow into their practice. No one can force me to touch them.
If you accidentally pre-purchased a massage, I politely ask you to get a refund or donate your massage to a special lady in your life.
Thanks for understanding,
Ryan.